There are a number of great books available which relate to aging and care. Here are just a few:

Elder Rage or Take My Father...Please! How to Survive Caring for Aging Parents
By Jacqueline Marcell, Impressive Press, Irving California

Give to Your Heart’s Content…Without Giving Yourself Away
By Linda R. Harper, Ph.D., Innisfree Press, Inc. Philadephia, PA

Tumbling After, Pedaling Like Crazy After Life Goes Downhill
By Susan Parker, Crown Publishers, New York, New York

Who Cares, A Loving Guide for Caregivers
By Dee Marrella, DC Press, Sanford, FL

The Caregiver Helpbook
By Vicki L. Schmall, Ph.D., Legacy Caregiver Services, Portland, OR